Actually I didn't pay 200k and the ONLY guild that I've been kicked out of is TSE Silly's Guild. I join guilds to help them develop skill and show them the ways. When they don't put in as much as I do, I quit.
As a former member of Rekt/ROD and now a member of EQMS the solution is quite simple.
That all. However, people don't want to put the time in to practice PvP. People just want to log on engage in fights, do absolutely terrible, and then log off. Rinse and repeat.